♥ ♥ ♥ The Big V-Day ♥ ♥ ♥

For most men, this is the most stressful day of the year. Every story is screaming "buy your woman a red present with a heart on it". But WTH are you really supposed to do?

If you are a confident woman, you probably know what you want for Valentine's Day. These wants may include but are not limited to:

• Dinner (homemade by your man, or at your fave spot)
• Jewelry (I'm sure anything in a box would make her swoon)
• Flowers (a single rose in a vase...or a whole freakin rose bush)
• or wine...

Those are some of the most popular presents that women receive on this HOLY HEART day.

BORING!!!!

Ladies...help that poor sap out. Do you really want all those things? Or do you see the other women in your office getting them and think you want them. This day should be enjoyable for you both...make your own traditions and quit complaining that your man doesn't understand you. Maybe you aren't taking the time to understand your man.

• He is stressed out... - Should I get flowers or chocolate. Or should I not get flowers because they will die and then V-Day would be kind of morbid. Chocolate? Or is she on a diet?
• He is on a budget... - I would love to get her jewelry...but those diamond earrings and dinner??? How in the world am I supposed to decide?
• He is feeling like this is a little one sided... -if I go through all this, she is still going to want the opposite of what I got. Hey, is she even going to get me anything? Sheesh!

I say, make your own tradition. Jason and I decided that it shouldn't be a big, stressful, red and pink day. We got matching shirts from Psych. It is our favorite TV show and we are always giggling when we say the quotes in random conversation. It will be something we can enjoy, remember, and use any day of the year. That's why I love him, because we can be "us" together. Everyday!

Dude...I'm not knocking you if you want your girl to see this in the morning...

But Ladies...if this is what he gives you...

Be grateful that he is there to see your heart melt, and hug him as hard as you can! Tell him you love him and mess up those sheets, you crazy kids!

OMG...too funny! If you mouth the words
it looks like you are say I LOVE YOU!
SteFunny♥

P.S. This was not meant to be a blog about man/woman relationships. If you have a different equation in your relation, I ♥ you too! Happy Valentine's Day to you and your lover (no matter what kind of "parts" they have)!
Pic Shout Outs: Lovely Stairs, Vintage Love, Snow Heart, Olive Juice